On confusing control with love…

When the rapper T.I. publicly stated this week that he takes his teenage daughter to the gynaecologist to check if her 'hymen is still intact', the world let out a collective "Uh, what???". The backlash was well-deserved as people took to social media to condemn the father's actions. In a series of tweets denouncing T.I.'s … Continue reading On confusing control with love…

On free-fall and new beginnings…

It's been 3 months since I arrived in Vietnam and 4 months since I left my home of four years in Tanzania. Moving and changing locations every few years has been my forever story. Rarely one to stay put for long, I find myself getting the four-year-itch and feeling the urge for new adventures and … Continue reading On free-fall and new beginnings…

On keyboard warriors, virtue signalling and informed perspectives…

“There’s a gap somehow between empathy and activism. " Sue Monk Kidd The internet is a tiring place at times. This amazing global resource for connection is often used as a platform for attack with keyboard warriors poised for the slightest opportunity to launch into their manifesto, however uninformed it may be. https://youtu.be/-S14SjemfAg There is a … Continue reading On keyboard warriors, virtue signalling and informed perspectives…

On endings and beginnings…

"We delight in the beauty of a butterfly but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty." - Maya Angelou I'm in transition again. My chapter here in beautiful Tanzania is coming to a close and, as of August this year, I'm starting a new chapter in Hanoi, Vietnam. It feels … Continue reading On endings and beginnings…

35 pieces of thankfulness for my 35 years…

Tomorrow I turn 35. While it is the age, I have been informed, that my fertility apparently drops off the proverbial cliff (poetic!), researchers have also said that it is the age at which women peak - becoming more confident and happier. A few years ago I wrote this post on my birthday, reflecting on … Continue reading 35 pieces of thankfulness for my 35 years…

It’s time. {On the invisibility cloak…}

It's time. It's time to talk about all of this.... this strange twilight zone that we seem to be living in. This endless confronting news cycle. This overwhelming media assault. This strange counter-argument that keeps creeping in, seemingly to justify or give some explanation for the wreckage that has been left behind by this patriarchal … Continue reading It’s time. {On the invisibility cloak…}

On loving fiercely…

"A mother's love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path." ―Agatha Christie, "The Last Séance" On UK Mother's Day last weekend, I posted a photo collage of my beautiful Mama on Facebook … Continue reading On loving fiercely…